Thursday, January 21, 2010

My Daddy



If my dad isn't the best man I've ever known, he's definitely very high up there. He is kind, loving, driven, and supports me and any of the crazy dreams that I have. He almost never asks and almost always gives in whatever way he can to whatever I ask. He will drop anything if I need him. He came to almost all of my performances and competitions. He was and is always there for me, even if its just to chat. I never realized how lucky I was until like this year when I realized usually it's people mom's that do that kind of stuff and sometimes they don't even get that much! (not that my mom isn't ridiculously supportive- she is... just saying usually people only get their moms to come to stuff:D)I really am the luckiest girl in the world.

And I realized something today... I certainly don't talk to him enough. It's not like we have a bad relationship at all, we love each other dearly... But today I started talking about Rachel Scott (a HUGE part of my platform for miss murray) and he had no idea what I was talking about.

Some daughters could choose to be offended that their dad didn't know what was going on in my life. But not me. It's my own dang fault and from this day forward I'm going to be much better in not only keeping in contact with my daddy, but with the rest of my family too. My brothers, sister, in laws, and cousins. These people are the ones who really will be with me forever and I need to keep them more involved in my life.

I love my family. I am so incredibly blessed :D

Thursday, January 14, 2010

The Violinist in the Subway

Have a wonderful day and remember...take time to enjoy life!
As someone once said: "Life's too short to sweat the small stuff!!"

the violinist in the subway . . .




Have a wonderful day and remember...take time to enjoy life!
As someone once said: "Life's too short to sweat the small stuff!!"



the violinist in the subway . . .



Washington DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007:

The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.

4 minutes later:

The violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.

6 minutes:

A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

10 minutes:

A 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.

45 minutes:

The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

1 hour:

He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100. This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.

The question is: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?
Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world,
playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made.
How many other things are we missing?

Stop a while and breathe in the life all around you for 20 seconds that could change your day completely.

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Ok, I know this email was sent to me to tell me to enjoy life, but it really made me think. Sometimes we look at people in certain contexts and assume so much because of what they're wearing or what they're doing or where they're at. It's incredible how much of a person in under what we see every day. Some people try to seem better than they really are; others try to hide their true talent. Either way, we should be taking each person and trying to figure out why they are who they are and loving them for their true selves.

I've really learned this the last two years. You never know how amazing someone can be until you dig into their past and hear what they want to do with their future.

Friday, January 8, 2010

To Just "Hang Out"

So... there's been a bit of a bad wrap on "hanging out" around here. Many say we should be going on dates and what not... and I must say, I'm not really ready to go on tons of dates. I just want to hang out!

Every boy I meet now hangs out with me for one reason:to date. It's like I can't have guy friends anymore. I know it's been said that guys don't just have friends, but seriously, it's amazing to just hang out with the guys!

I've met some people recently that want to get married and dating is just a way to find that person. I date to have fun. I date to make friends. Then, when I find that one person I can't live without, I will marry him. I know not many people are like me, that's why I've learned to "just say no" because I'm not ready to be in a relationship, and we all know I'm just gonna hurt anyone who really wants to date me.

Tonight I hung out with 2 of my best guy friends- Chase and Mike. We went to Cynthia's party and then the Phi party (side note because this is gonna be turning into my journal, I have to write about it... At both parties everyone thought we were crazy! at Cynthia's we were all dancing and havin fun. And at the Phi party, we started playing body volleyball with a beach ball.. ohmigosh it was SOOOO funny! "HT!" ahhhh I love those boys. I always have so much fun with them!) It was amazing. We had so much fun just enjoying each others' company. No one had to worry about impressing anyone else. We could just let loose and be ourselves! Haha and everyone around us thought we were CRAZY!

I wish I could have more guy FRIENDS like that... I know I probably won't because that's just not the way we're raised or trained... but it certainly was nice.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Just a Ride

Life. is full of surpises. Here is my song of the moment
oh ps i dont update this blog as much, but i keep my miss murray one really up to date. it's missmurray2010.blogspot.com so you should all read it :D

Life, it's ever so strange
It's so full of change
Think that you've worked it out
Then BANG
Right out of the blue
Something happens to you
To throw you off course
And then you

Breakdown
Yeah you breakdown
Well don't you breakdown
Listen to me
Because

It's just a ride, it's just a ride
No need to run, no need to hide
It'll take you round and round
Sometimes you're up
Sometimes you're down
It's just a ride, it's just a ride
Don't be scared
Don't hide your eyes
It may feel so real inside
But don't forget it's just a ride

Truth, we don't wanna hear
It's too much to take
Don't like to feel out of control
So we make our plans
Ten times a day
And when they don't go
Our way we

Breakdown
Yeah we breakdown
Well don't you breakdown
Listen to me
Because

It's just a ride, it's just a ride
No need to run, no need to hide
It'll take you round and round
Sometimes you're up
Sometimes you're down
It's just a ride, it's just a ride
Don't be scared
Don't hide your eyes
It may feel so real inside
But don't forget it's just a ride

Slowly, oh so very slowly
Accept that
There's no getting off
So live it, just gotta go with it
Coz this ride's, never gonna stop

Breakdown
Don't you breakdown
No need to breakdown
No need at all
Because

It's just a ride, it's just a ride
No need to run, no need to hide
It'll take you all around
Sometimes you're up
Sometimes you're down
It's just a ride, it's just a ride
Don't be scared now
Dry your eyes
It may feel so real inside
But don't forget enjoy the ride

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

So i think glenn beck is hilarious

and here are some good quotes

*speaking of the idiot who forced there to be a "do not use this snowblower on a roof" label and thought the company should've protected him*

I'm sorry, nobody can protect you from being an idiot. If you're an idiot, you'll always be an idiot, and if anybody's responsible for it, it's your mom and dad, not a company.

Too many people blame everythign on everybody else, and because they do, they expect too little from themselves and too little from their children.

but a good quote from him
in order to get something

you must want it
you must believe it
you must live it
you will become it

ta ta for now!
i shall go read more now because apparently i just never fall asleep anymore

Thursday, August 6, 2009

a snipet from a letter

so... i thought i'd posted this on my blog but i hadn't.
this is part of my so-not-weekly-anymore letter to my friends on missions. I don't want to rewrite what was around it so you can read it as is haha

One last thing I want to share before I wrap this up is what we learned today in Brother Wilcox’s institute class.we were talking about one of my favorite chapters in the BOM, Alma 32. Specifically verse 28. I hope I can explain this as well as he did. He said there are 4 ways faith can grow/ a testimony can be gained.

1. Swelling within your breast.
This is the typical one that most people look for – this or a burning in the bosom. Basically a sign that the church is true through physical means. He says (and I agree) that we tend to focus on this one too much. This is a physical, spiritual and sometimes emotional (which isn’t always that safe) way to know the Church is true

2. Enlarge the soul
This means the soul becomes better- in short, you become a better person. There are many people in the church who know that the church is true just because it makes them a better person and it’s simply a smart way to live. He told us a story of how his sister came to him and was worried about her husband because he’d never had the “swelling in the breast” or “Burning of the bosom” moment. But Bro Wilcox asked if he was a good father, husband, and member of the church. She said yes. He said then why are you worried? Haha. I understand where she was coming from, but if he knows the church is true through his own ways, then he doesn’t need to have that moment of epiphany. This is a social way to know.

3. Enlighten the understanding
I definitely think that Bro Wilcox leans in this direction a lot of times, which is great cuz he’s just an intellectual. Basically, the Book of Mormon, the plan of happiness, the word of wisdom, how everything came to be, it just makes sense. There’s no way an uneducated farm boy could create such an amazing book. If this helps people believe, more power to em baby! This is an intellectual way to know.

4. Delicious
This I think is the one that I lean to. Being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints just makes me plain happy. That’s all there is to it. When I get up to bare my testimony, I don’t cry (which isn’t a bad thing… many people cry haha) but I’m just beaming. I’m SO happy and I have SO much love for everyone in the church and everyone out of the church too because I know they are daughters and sons of our Heavenly Father. The scriptures are good and delicious, the teachings of the church are good and delicious. I love everything about the church. The happiness that I feel being a member is why I know this is the true church.

This was an awesome lesson. Basically, it’s great to have that one moment when you know the church is true, but for many people that never comes. They just know because they can feel it, it makes sense, they just know. I never had an “aha” moment. It was basically just “silly Stacey, you know it’s true.” Awesome awesome lesson that I think both new members and life long members must remember. :D

I feel so lucky to be in my church. it just makes sense, it's a good way of living, it makes me happy, and it's the WHOLE truth. Thank you mommy and daddy for sure. Love you all!